My wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?

she with to myrtle beach with her girlfriend and meet a guy on sat and sleep with him on sunday i dont know what to do. leave or stay ,i love her with all my heart and im trying not to think about it but it is hard i told her i forgive her and i do but the pain is so intense im very angry i called the guy and left message nothing rude just told him i know and dont call her anymore. i think i made a mistake by asking her details i feel so hurt if i didnt have kids i probably be in prison now. i just wisth the pain will disappearMy wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?First, I would get her tested for STDs.



Second, I would evaluate how you will feel about this in two or five years from now.



Third, I would have a tough time trusting her again and I would probably leave.My wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?
You just got to take it day by day, and stop beating yourself up with it. She did something that was very stupid, and you forgave her because of the love you have for her. You just got to go on with your marriage and release that angry feeling, because you are a forgiven person that do have love in you.My wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?EEEK! Yah thats ruff. I will tell you one thing, you wont ever trust her again. And that make a marriage very stressful. I went through that and about drove myself insane. That really sucks that you guys have kids!? I don't understand why a woman would do that. Is she even sorry? Why did you have to call the guy to tell him to stop calling her?? I'm very sorry, but the pain won't really ever go away...it's up to you how long you want to deal with it.
It's hard to say what's going on based on your information. Perhaps there is something that she needs in the relationship that you are not giving her? This is one reason why people cheat. Or she could just be immature. Is there a way that you could take a break from her for a while? You could get over your hurt %26amp; she could hopefully figure out what she wants?My wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?She might have done it before and didn't tell you. Anyway, now that you know, she'll just continue to cheat and you will look like an idiot. The foundation of your relationship (trust) is broken and can't be repaired. Sorry about the kids, but it's time to throw in the towel.My wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?
You wife sounds emotionally immature. You need to come to this website, www.recoverynation.com/. It is a site for people who are struggling with their partners sexual/love addiction. There is a side of the site for her - people who are unfaithful. Good luck
wow she sure is easy huh? I am sure that won't be the last time something like this happens if it was that easy on her the first time....Did she somehow forget in the moment she was married and willing to throw all that away on some random guy she just met the day before....what a shame.My wife cheated on me, it was a one night stand what should i do i really do love her but my heart is hurt?
how did you find out? did she tell you? if she did then that means she felt sorry for wat she did and realizes she made a huge mistake in her life and by you forgiven her, that's big. I would take it day by day and try to forget n move on with your marriage. Family is more important
I would never stay with a cheater thats why my ex is an ex. I have too much pride to be treated that way. You may have adored her but now what do you adore about her.
i'm sorry. i know how you feel. the pain does go away. you need to talk, and see if she really is sorry and if you guys have stuff to work out. i hope it works.
Sorry to say, but she doesn't really love you in the same way you love her--if she did, then she wouldn't have done this to you. She needs to go.
find another women and leave that hoe cause if she wants to mess around with other guys than she aint thinking about truthme it isnt worth it if you cant forgive n forget
well first of all there is a situation on sex and the city just like your but it was the guy that cheated on his wife and they had kids if you want to know what happened between them you should watch it to get full details.you prob don't have the time however so think about how she has apologized to you? has she? has she asked for your forgiveness?and does she really want you back?these are all good signs and will suggest that your wife made a mistake and still loves you.however if this isn't the case she maybe doesn't feel the same way.trust will be hard to get back from her but if shes begged for your forgiveness and it was only a 1 night stand you should give her another chance.
As far as anybody cheating on their mate to me is despicable. If that person feels that they wish to be with someone other then you, well they can't have their cake and eat it to. Its nice to forgive but in your heart of hearts can you tell yourself this won't happen again? Love tends to dictate sometimes to you to forgive in light of whats happen, but a heart thats been hurt which is very difficult to mend will always be uncertain. Don't do anything foolish that you might regreat because you still have children that need their fathers suppot at home. Being in jail away from you children won't help the situation I would ask that you have a hard to hard talk to your wife to see where this may be going. One hurt is more then enough, you don't need it again. Talk to her.Best Of Luck.