Why cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?

Well sometimes a cuple gets tired of the same person . Plus you are having sex with the same partner all through your marriage I mean in a relationship both have to keep the spice alive . Or else you kill the relationship and then you start doing things you never saw yourself doing .I don't think what you did was wrong but she also might not be satisfying you the way a man should be getting satisfied . Well just talk to her about experementing or trying new things .But dont tell her you had a one night stand cause that will just give you complications. There is a lot of temtentions its up to you though to say yes or no . But then yet we all learn from our mistakes . Good luck and stay safe..Why cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?Probably guilt.Why cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?
sounds like she ain't got it anymore and a little bit of guiltWhy cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?mabey you just fell bad or dont feel the same way about her as u did befor!
it comes down to one simple thing, animal instincts. Subconsciously you don't find your wife exit icing, sexy, or attractive. Therefore you go out and find something "fresh" to fulfill that need to feel excitement.Why cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?u probably feel guilty of somethin... maybe u should talk to her before ur situation gets worseWhy cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?
You dont fancy her anymore...simple.
i think the answer is in the question!Why cant i make love to my wife but can have a one night stand?
Emotions effect sexual performance directly, especially for men. You have obviously got not only guilt, but a plethora of other issues surrounding your wife, but when it's someone you hardly know....there's no baggage or emotion. Just physical instinct.

BTW, that's pretty deplorable behavior, as if you didn't know.
If you were putting the effort it takes to have a one night stand in to your marriage you wouldn't be having these problems.
My friend..u need to see a therapist.Remember the marriage vowels..the bit about forsaking all others?Get sum help,see a marriage councillor.Maybe u need to rediscover your wife again.Get that spice back.Go away for a passionate weekend together.
Because it's the new that makes life exciting. I'll wager that if she cut and died her hair and wore (or removed) a pair of glasses, you'd jump all over her. I think the trick to keeping a long marriage exciting is the changes. I like roller-coasters but I wouldn't want to ride the same one for the rest of my life. The trick is to throw a new curve in the track every now and then to keep it interesting.
This happens a lot to people who have been together for a while and have become just a part of every day life, perhaps you have watched her changing nappies in her rollers or doing other things like cleaning kiddies vomit up, enough to kill any mood.



I suggest reserving a portion of time for a break together, not necassarily to shag like rabbits, but more to re-discover what it was that sparked the two of you off. Pretend you have to win her all over again, and think of her as a sexy piece instead of a mother and home maker.



Try and make an effort and don't take her for granted.
you need to get help.

what you are doing is stupid and you know it.

do you still love each other?

marriage goes stale when you dont respond to each other and she wil think no sex means she is unattractive or that you are stressed out... sometimes it's easier to ignore than confront.

have you done anything together, meals, walks, recently.

do you talk ........get back to basics if you want to keep together.

this is a disaster waiting to happen.
so you can still have sex, just not with your wife! and i wouldnt call it making love as you sound like youve had more than 1 one night stand so you dont actually love your wife. Let the poor woman go and have a life, Im sure shes not exactly thrilled at having a loveless relationship.