Wednesday, March 7, 2012

How can I get my girlfriend to come back to me after a fight we had when I was drunk one night?

Well we have been going out for about 8 months. I'm 19 and she's 18.She's my first serious girlfriend.I love her a lot,the first girl in my life that I actually love and she says the same for me.During the past 8 months we've had great times, when we're together we're so happy and we feel really good.We trust each other and we are loyal and we enjoy our relationship to the fullest.My problem is,one night after we had been going out for about 3 months I got really drunk and was arrogant and ruff with her in a nightclub in front of her friends and other ppl.She almost broke up with me but with influences from other ppl and my self we got back together.Same thing happened again a week ago but this time I insulted her over the phone.That's not me,i don't know what happens to me then.She said she gave me a chance the 1st time and I blew it and now she's affraid i'll do it again.She loves me,wants to be with me but this is enough of a reason not to be with me.I tried everything,doesn't workHow can I get my girlfriend to come back to me after a fight we had when I was drunk one night?STOP THE DRINKINGHow can I get my girlfriend to come back to me after a fight we had when I was drunk one night?
You need to quit drinking. If you want to be with her then at least give that up.How can I get my girlfriend to come back to me after a fight we had when I was drunk one night?Stop drinking (your underage anyway) and be prepared to lose her because she has to think of her safety and you have displayed behaviors that could lead to a very dangerous situation. You sound like an aggressor when drunk...I hope you dont feel the need to drink and if you do...seek help NOW!!How can I get my girlfriend to come back to me after a fight we had when I was drunk one night?
Have you tried apologizing to her? Apologized for hurting her, not just for getting in trouble for it?

Since these problems always happen when you're drunk, have you considered that maybe you have a drinking problem (not that you drink too much or too often, but that alcohol turns you into a jerk)? If you can admit this problem to yourself, and to her, and to promise to get help for it, that might be a start. Then you have to actually go and get help, and do the work it takes to overcome this problem. Once you've proved you've become a better man, maybe she'll consider giving it another chance. But honestly, dude, why should she give you another chance until you can PROVE that you can live up to your promises? She's being smart right now, and you need to wise up as well and get your act together before you ask anything more of her.How can I get my girlfriend to come back to me after a fight we had when I was drunk one night?I think she's right. She gave you a second chance and there's no reason for her to give you a third. This could also be the beginning of a drinking problem.

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