Mature only! Long term love & I broke up & are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?

protected sex %26amp; told her about it. She told me of 6 dates with one guy (got to the point where he would tell her what to wear) but just kissing. In your opinion, which situation is more damaging. Don't worry, we're together but I maintain seeing someone repeatedly even without sex is more damaging.Mature only! Long term love %26amp; I broke up %26amp; are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?I disagree, dating is dating but sex is serious. Even protected, you are at increased risk of contracting a disease. When you have sex, you have given everything you have to someone - when you are dating, you're only giving time and some superficial information. Sounds like the guy she was seeing was just a jerk so it's a good think they didn't have sex. I guess "more damaging" really depends on who you ask - most women are going to say that actually having sex is more damaging. To many women - sex is the ultimate act of love between two people. It is sacred, which is why we don't video tape it and publish it on the internet for cash. To us actual sex would be more damaging than just "seeing" someone.Mature only! Long term love %26amp; I broke up %26amp; are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?
you're just hurting your selves!

get a life!!!

be faithful!!!Mature only! Long term love %26amp; I broke up %26amp; are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?worring about the past will only devestate a relationship whether you think it wont or not, both are hurtful, but just forget about them dont focus on what hurts you, focus on the wonderful relationship you have now.....
One nighter definitely more painful.....Mature only! Long term love %26amp; I broke up %26amp; are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?You were on a break so what does it matter. Neither situation is damaging since you were not datingMature only! Long term love %26amp; I broke up %26amp; are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?
If you broke up, that means she had the right to date someone else and so did you. Neither of you are wrong, and it shouldn't be damaging to you now. Do you worry that she's going to go back to him? While you weren't together, it wasn't cheating and thus shouldn't have any effect on your relationship now. You agreed to break up and each made the decision to be with someone else. It's time to just let it go and get back to being together.
Neither is damaging, you weren't together.Mature only! Long term love %26amp; I broke up %26amp; are now happily reunited. During the break I had a one night?
Move on or really move on.
dude, eventually the truth will come up, and will do more damage, you better tell her openly what you did. If pwerson truly loves you she will forgive.



that's all
Who cares which is more damaging? Your together now just be happy. Revive your relationship. What happened when you werent together doesnt matter.
The sex is more damaging because of your lack of protection. you might have gotten a gift that keeps on giving
as long as this was done during the break you two had what's the problem both were damaging one not more than the other cause in one instance passion was exchanged with someone else and the other instance intimacy was however you two were broke up at the time not for sure all would work out, it took things like that happening to make the two of you see that it was really one another not you each needed in your life
leave this direction of thought alone, you'll drive yourselves mental going round in circles, you guys had broken up. you weren't cheating on each other, so what's the problem?



Seriously, this will lead to heartache if you keep fixating on it, it will become an issue when it clearly should not.
Leave it alone. You were broke up and free to see other people. Now you are back together. You know that saying, "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas?" Well, your break up was Vegas. Leave it alone. If you try to figure out who did the most damage then you're only going to hurt your relationship. Stop digging up old bones and start fresh and new with each other.
You're trying to make your behavior okay by making her behavior worse. That is, you're trying to make her wrong and you right or at least not as wrong.



Drop it. You both did the same thing in different ways. In my own opinion what she did is fairly innocent - there was no sex. You did the nasty with someone else as a one-night stand.



If you want to move forward with this relationship I recommend you accept your share of the blame, kiss her and move on.
Did she sleep with the guy? NO!!!

Did U sleep with the girl? YES!!!

now, whats wrong with this picture? your E...G...O!!!

by the way what caused the break up? Move on, keep it

positive and intimate......enjoy many days together in the sun...