Saturday, March 10, 2012

Who out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?

and that he loves his wife...so it is no big deal...that the wife should just get over it and realize that everyone "makes mistakes" and that he loves the wife and that he had a bad moment in his marriage due to some unhappiness and that the wife and husband should just go on if they want to make it work? Who thinks it is or is not a big deal and that it was just sex? Who out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?I'm okay with occasional prostitutes when we're apart for a long time, but never allow one night stands. Prostitutes are just sex. One night stands are more personal.Who out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?
Slut it outWho out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?Nope. He cheated. It was more than just sex, especially is he was dissatisfied.
not ok. I think it is time to break up when that happens:

http://www.bofads.com/stories/breakup.ht鈥?/a>Who out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?it is never ok for someone to cheat on their mate, i don't care if they did it as a mistake, for just a fun time or free soda-it's wrong!Who out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?
Just sex can kill you these days.

Its a big deal on so many levels... and you have the nerve to be flip about it. SHE NEEDS TO RUN FAST
I sure don't.Who out there thinks it is ok that a hubby had a one night stand one time?
i think we are put on this earth to multiply not drama its simple
sex without love is mostly meaningless it really affects the other in a deep spiritual way
thats a pretty hurtful response to cheating. Whats to say he wont do it again if it was "just sex" clearly he doesnt feel any love for her if he would have sex for the sake of it and risk loosing her.
IT SURE IS A BIG DEAL AND IT'S NOT RIGHT!! DIVORCE HIS A***!!
When you are married no matter what you need in your life, you are to turn to your spouse for that...
wow what a whore. i'd drop him on the spot.
if my husband had a one night stand he would have third degree burns from the steaming hot pot of grits i would throw on his a$$
Yeah that's totally no big deal. In fact, she should feel lucky that it was ONLY ONCE. Wow this woman really doesn't realize a good thing when she's got it does she? What a dummy. You should divorce her and find a real woman who understands the needs of a man.
It isn't right that you cheated. However, I do understand you. Sex and love are two different things. However, if you knew that would hurt your wife why did you do it if you love her?
Umm...this is so not about the sex. This is about trust. Basically, you brought this woman and every one of her partners into your bedroom. Before the one night stand, did both partners have a blood test to make sure that they were clean and did they wait 6 months to make sure that the test results were completely clear? A one night stand is never just about the sex when you are married. You betrayed the trust of your partner and her health for something you are calling meaningless.
I'll bet if the tables were turned he wouldn't think that it wasn't such a big deal! Some men have double standards that way and this guy sounds like one of him. I would advise the wife she could do better. How can she get on with her life if she's always worried about him doing it again? I would expect him to do it again, especially if he thinks its no big dea.
well i think it is more than just sex because well...it was sex you need to have a heart to heart with your wife and consider therapy
A good friend has had multiple affairs or one night stands or whatever you want to call them. He's a great dad and is there for the wife. He tells me because he knows in our circle I'll not say a word and I don't. One time he even went to pick up his son at college and met a girl from the college at a bar. They had an evening and he took his son home the next day. The son never knew and neither does the mrs. Oh, and he uses protection so relax everyone.



My opinion is that this is entirely his business and nothing for me to be concerned about.
omg! you cheated didnt you! shame on you. no its not okay, how would the man feel if his wife slept with someone else?? somehow men think its okay that they do it, but not the woman. shocking!
it depends on your wife's point of veiw. for instance, my husband has a "pass" that since his work takes him away for long periods of time, as long as he is honest, open, wraps it up, makes it home safe, he's in the green. but otherwise, like if he lied to me about it, did it regularly or while at home, would be grounds for divorce. this man needs to tell the wife he is sorry, to err is human, but to be a pig about it is, well, egotistical and rude. sounds like someone or both parties are not taking it seriously.
it doesnt matter he cheated and thats crossing the line, the first time it happens we would be over.
i wonder how the husband would feel if it's the wife who went out and had a one night stand because of some "unhappiness". i would imagine it would not be ok with him especially if he didn't go out and cheat. and it is cheating, period, no excuses. if you are not satisfied, have the decency to break up first before you go out and have sex.



that wouldn't go over well with me. i'd boot his *** out and he can have as many one night stands as he wants, and i'll get me a better, more faithful man, not a someone who can't keep it in his pants.
First I would like to say I am sorry for what he did to you. The reason is, is because I have done the same thing to my girlfriend. The girl that I was with I knew 10 years back from high school and we started talking again and decided it would be fun to "hook up". Well we did and my gf found out. Thankfully my gf didn't leave me, but the only thing going through my mind when I was with the other girl was it was just sex. I didn't want to be with her other then that. I let myself go to far, which was VERY wrong. So like the "husband" he may love his wife to death, but just let himself go beyond the line.



I do think it IS a big deal, but I also think it was just a one time thing. Now if he does it again, then he obviously doesn't care about his wife and she should leave him. People make mistakes, that's life. Its when you learn from your mistakes that means everything!
While I understand that a one night stand doesn't have anything to do with love or even mean he doesn't love the wife, I don't think it's okay. I'd be afraid it would happen the next time we argued, or the next time there was some unhappiness. It's a really strange choice if someone wants to make the relationship work. I wouldn't be able to continue the relationship unless he would agree to counselling.
oh dear.... I could be wrong about this but by the tone of your virtual voice, am I right in thinking you have just had a huge row over this?



I agree with everyone when I say its not right, but Hubby may have a small point. Sometimes it feels good to break the rules, but only at the time, afterwards you may feel empty, guilty and useless. I guarantee this is hubby. Have you ever done something naughty only to be filled with remorse later?



I dont know how long you have been married but why throw away years for a half hour mistake (might not have even been half hour!! :-)). Its you he has had sex with for years, and you he wants to cuddle up to, share his life with. Not the other one he had a grope with.



You can move on but it will take time. You have the power to turn this around. Right now you are the better person and by learning to forgive and forget, you will contimue to be that powerful person.



I hope you sort this out.



One more thing - if he does it again, kick him hard out the door and cut up all his clothes and credit cards!!!!
It's not ok, but with therapy it may be something which they can work through and move on. It really depends on both husband and wife and their attitudes to the marriage.



Work will need to be done to help identify what happened to trigger the event and to regain trust within the relationship.



I have witnessed relationships being "fixed" and others breaking down.



I certainly dont think the wife shoul just "get over it".
Sex outside the marriage is never ok. Its harmful in soooo many ways when you get caught. Just kidding.
Once is not a crime. Most mature women know that a man needs a little on the side every once in a while.
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