Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?

I don't understand why people love one night stands so much, i think one night stands are disgusting, how can you have sex with a person that you just met? how can you do something so intimate with a strange person? if you're so horny, why don' you masturbate? sex is a loving act which should be performed only by married people.



Now, probably you're going to answer "why do you care about what other people do?" well... I care because these irresponsible people then bring children to this world, and obviously they're not ready to be parents, so they either abort , or they bring the child to this world and then raise the child in a very unhealthy environment... you know, an environment of poverty, drugs, lack of values, etc... And that's something that really pisses me off.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?Part of the answer to your question is in your question: for you, sex is an act that should be performed only by married people. While there are others who agree with you, there are also many others who do not see sex in this limited way; for many other people, sex can be anything from a bonding experience for a romantic partner to a fun, recreational way to play with others.



You seem to have a lot of values assumptions about people who have one night stands: that they're poor, use drugs, are pro-choice, and are unready to be parents. I don't think there's a lot of evidence to support those beliefs. Rather, people who have one night stands tend to be all over the socioeconomic, drug-use, parental-readiness, abortion-rights, and cultural map (just like people who believe sex is for married people only).

.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?
I think on women's part it's loneliness--it's embarrassing to say, but in my 20's I used to go to bars and pick up men, and sometimes it would turn into a relationship. I think for men it's that they enjoy the pleasure of a woman's body instead of their own hand. Just so you don't get too excited, I've never brought an unwanted child into the world, or any child, for that matter.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?You are making SO many generalizations, it's impossible to address.



Simply, people are different and have different needs. And they have the right to behave as they see fit.



Most people are not poor, ignorant drug addicts. Those are your assumptions and they are incorrect
ods cool. well, i agree with the person who asked the question,participating in one night stands or premarital sex is wrong.. a person can always masturbate and keep his.her virginity for marriage.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?Different strokes for different folks I guess!!



Erm, babies don't generally happen from one night stands. Otherwise people would not have them just like that.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?
Because mating with the opposite sex is the real deal...provided you are careful enough as not to get an STD or worse from them.
You are obviously a woman.



For a man, the feel of a warm, wet vagina is WAY better than his own hand.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?
did you knew you cannot tickle yourself ?
I know it is not right but it is exciting and feels good. That would be my short explanation.
it's reality
Ewwww yuk--YOU TOUCH YOURSELF?!
Cuz I can't buy myself drinks. And it's hard to masterbate when drunk
Had a bad day, hun?