is this a normal average number of sex partners for a 26 year old girl?
ladies, what can you say about that? i am not passing judgment on her because i trust her and love her i just want to know womens perpective because guys can be very biased and easily say she is slutty.
the fact that she told me about her number of sex partners must be a sign that she trusts me so much. is this true?
i dont have experiences like this before, hence i need womens insights.For girls only. one night stand queston.?People will probably say HELLL NOOO.
But I'll just say NO WAY.
You should average that out, to how many a year that's been since she became sexually active.
Aside from any judgment about whether its 'moral' or not, the facts stand that she may have commitment issues and you don't want to just be #26. One night stands might point to a lack in respect for herself. Or a sex addiction, or hell, an alcohol addiction? Is she concerned about her number? It doesn't seem healthy. Like emotional wise.For girls only. one night stand queston.?
It's hard to say... maybe she just went through a phase? But she obviously doesn't see sex as something to be shared with someone special, so I don't know if that's important to you. I don't know if telling you is necessarily a sign that she trusts you... maybe its just not something she hides. I don't think that's an average number of sexual partners. I read somewhere that the average number of partners a girl has in a lifetime is around 3For girls only. one night stand queston.?I am not going to be much of a help since I am 20 and virgin, but I think that the number is a little high. It might just be that she likes sex and she was horny when those guys were around. I do think that since she was being honest about it, that she is trusting you and wants you to trust her. Give her a chance, she might love you back enough.
No one has the right to say what is a normal amount of sexual partners for anyone. Everybody is different, that's why the world is such an interesting place. You shouldn't judge her by the amount of people she has slept with. Maybe she has never met anyone, until you, that she wasn't to spend more than one night with!For girls only. one night stand queston.?25 is a pretty high number if you ask me, but a few one night stands never hurt anyone. i probably wouldnt tell anyone the number of sex partners i had unless i trusted them, so she probably trusts you. or she's just trying to brag.For girls only. one night stand queston.?
Well i'm 16 and am a virgin... i don't know i think that is quite alot, like why would you count them past 10 !?
but at least she is being honest, and they probably didn't mean anything. . . . ...
25??
Before you have sex with her, get her checked out... possible she might have something esp. if the 25 are ALL one night stands.
For girls only. one night stand queston.?
She's obviously not the average girl. And she is not trying to hide this for you, so you know what you get. If it worries you that she may not be faithful to you, talk to her about it, I'm sure she'd be outspoken about that subject to you as well.
The fact that she had many sexpartners doesn't mean she can't be faithful if she wants.
Edited to add: if average is so important for you, she may not be the right girl for you.
Edited to add: well go for her, if you're sure you can live with her past. You seem to really love her and if that's mutual then you may be very happy together. Everyone can change.
im 19 almost 20 and I have had one. In my personal opinion that is a LOT! If she honestly told u this, that means that she trusts you, Im having difficulties with my lover now, he wont tell me how many either. I think more than 10 is a lot, How many have you had??? Is it close to there? But good thing that you do not judge her, that shows that you LOVE her.
Ok, I agree with you-it should be something special. She may have commitment issues though, or she might have been just looking for the attention as well. that is how I lost my viginity. :( You sound like a super sweet guy, good luck %26amp; dont let her break your heart-u sound like one of the good ones!! :-)
dayuuuum i dont want to make the situation worse but if a guy i was with was in your girls situation...i wouldnt help to wonder that if one night he went out with his boys ..he could easily cheat on me and have a one nigh stand since he its something that he has done so easily...my issue would be trusting him...
in your case..if you trust her then dont worry... i mean its not that you want to judge her, but someone who has done that tells me about their character and how they view love ..better said..how they can separate sex from love so easily..i dont know try to deal with it i guess.
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