Saturday, March 10, 2012

When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???

I'm so tired of this term love making, instead of using the term hving sex. When are people going to learn that a sexual act is not necessarily associated with love. And 'making love' does not have to include sexual intimacy. I understand some use the term to be polite. But what is wrong to tell it like it is? Would you consider one night stands ...love making ?When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???LOL, no you're quite right. A one night stand is NOT "love making". I think it's rather funny to hear it called that. Certainly, there is a huge difference between the two. I would even add in a third term beginning with the letter F, but I don't want my answer flagged. But it strikes me that there may be about 3 different activities that adults are engaging in, and only one of them has anything to do with love, which is perfectly OK. Let's call it what it is, people.



I do think that there is a good time to use the term "lovemaking", however. Usually, people misuse it.When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???
So, your a one shot cassanova and you want support from us about being a trashy little man whore? Not from me.When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???dude, she's never coming back. so stop ranting and raving. try the family dog X-)
Ignore them, you're right.



It's sex, not love making.



Some people just don't have the backbone to admit they procreate for the fun of it, so they juice it up with the concepts of love.



If you have sex as a one night stand, it's sex...not love.



Even if you have sex within a relationship with someone you love, it's still sex....and you're still having it because it's nice to have it.



If it was just love you'd make them a cup of coffee and wash the dishes while they put their feet up.When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???Women use the term "love making" so they feel less like sluts and more like partners. But yeah.. its definitely sex.When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???
Everyone refers to sex differently, depending on how they do it and who they do it with. One person's lovemaking might be another person's fcuking.
for me ;

having sex directly aims the target while love making does not hurry and makes a long travel for the final destination,,

it totally depends on my mood ( plus my partners')

in general I am somewhere in the middle..When are people going to learn the difference between 'Love making' and having Sex ???
I can't stand the term "love making" it already seems to take the naughty fun away....

I like SEX....pure, raw, animal magnetism....SEX.

The term love making is supposed to be polite, and PC...

behind closed doors is the one place I do not wanna be tied down to manners or etiquette....

"making love" just sounds so "Polly Anna, self righteous, Christian, stifling, suffocating, needy, boring, vanilla, yawn, yuck, no thanks" to me.

One night stands are def. not considered love making, they are sexual encounters.

You can be in a committed relationship, on an intimate sexual basis, and still not have to call it "love making".

I have never in my life used the term "making love"....it just doesn't exist in my vocabulary. It's SEX BAYBEH....SEX !!!
love making is such a prudish, PG term. Like grown adults are afraid to say SEX. heaven forbid. So love is created when a man's genitals penetrate into a woman's magically? I don't know, I believe you show your love by the things you say and do for your partner. I don't believe you have to have sex to love another person sexually, or whatever.



I mean back rubs, kissing, whatver are physical ways of love. Whether you want to admit it or not lust is part of sex even for partners that have been married for 20 years. Because if there wasn't love making could be shown or done without sex. But back to my point. Sex is sex. The difference is that sex with a person one loves will involve intimacy and feelings, thus sex with a loved one. Casual sex is without the emotion or what not, so there's the difference there. But the fact of the matter is that they are both sex, not this fairy tale, 1800s term. Sex is sex, just with different people it can be a strong connection or not connection.
Semantics. 'Intercourse' and 'coitus' are more scientific (clinical).

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