How come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?

doesn't the love you have for someone stop that?and all the consequencesHow come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?When you truly love someone and get married that means you honor that and your integrity and respect will flow, but there are too many jackasses in this world that get married and there dreaming, thinking they found love and found nothing and anyone who has love affairs against their spouse is a stupid lost idiot and we have lot's of lost idiots in this worldHow come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?
Sorry to have been so hard, but I was in a bad mood, but told it like I feel it.

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How come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?It's easy to say NO, provided your mature/responsible enough.



Start by realising how hurt your wife would be and think it through all the way past that 30 minutes of temporary pleasure.



Don't put yourself in situations where there are temptations.

I don't go to bars anymore and all but one of my friends is married.

We don't do many things separately, we are a couple.How come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?
Believe it or not, it is easy for a married man to say no to an extramarital affair/one night stand. Those who don't will find excuses and those who accept it (meaning YOU) are just fooling themselves thinking that all men are like this. If he was like this before you married him, then that was your first big red flag. Meanwhile, get tested for any STD that he may have picked up and given to you and insist on marriage counseling. Only you can decide if you are better off with or without him. Personally, it sounds like you're trying to make excuses for him. Good luck, hun. You are going to need it.How come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?Whores make it difficult to say no.



It takes some self control to keep them at bay.



Actually, it's not hard if you aren't looking to cheat.









I mean whore in the best possible sense, so I hope none of them get offended.How come its not easy for a married man to say no to an extra marital affair/one night stand?
All the answers were great..unfortunately sometimes for a partner love in not enough and they are looking for a quick "high" not thinking of the pain they cause their loved ones
If you really love your pardner there is no way one can even have the desire to cheat.

Has anyone ever had a one night stand that turned into more?

Just wondered if it was at all possible. You know you meet have sex then again a few days later you do it again but then what can it get deeper or is it just the love making?Has anyone ever had a one night stand that turned into more?well i heard that my aunt and uncle slept with each other on the first night so yes it must be possible but its never happened to me. In saying that Ive only slept with on guy on the first nightHas anyone ever had a one night stand that turned into more?
You cannot describe it as a one night stand if it turns out to be several nights. If the both of them are that desperate they resort to one night stands then they are already similar in a fashion and could theoretically be drawn together by their quest for foolishness sex. In fact they are the best to marry and live happily ever after because their history is the same.



However, when one of them gets an STI and dishes it out to the other, they may fall out.



Point to note is that it s not LOVE MAKING. It is sex. Love making is totally different.Has anyone ever had a one night stand that turned into more?No, I think one night stands are selfish and irresponsible.



However, I did know a woman who dated a guy for 5 years after a one night stand...it didn't end well because it's hard to trust people like that.Has anyone ever had a one night stand that turned into more?
Yes possible;

if you and your partner intentionally seek fr partner, it could lastHas anyone ever had a one night stand that turned into more?you remind me of the film "my best friends girl"

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Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?

I don't understand why people love one night stands so much, i think one night stands are disgusting, how can you have sex with a person that you just met? how can you do something so intimate with a strange person? if you're so horny, why don' you masturbate? sex is a loving act which should be performed only by married people.



Now, probably you're going to answer "why do you care about what other people do?" well... I care because these irresponsible people then bring children to this world, and obviously they're not ready to be parents, so they either abort , or they bring the child to this world and then raise the child in a very unhealthy environment... you know, an environment of poverty, drugs, lack of values, etc... And that's something that really pisses me off.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?Part of the answer to your question is in your question: for you, sex is an act that should be performed only by married people. While there are others who agree with you, there are also many others who do not see sex in this limited way; for many other people, sex can be anything from a bonding experience for a romantic partner to a fun, recreational way to play with others.



You seem to have a lot of values assumptions about people who have one night stands: that they're poor, use drugs, are pro-choice, and are unready to be parents. I don't think there's a lot of evidence to support those beliefs. Rather, people who have one night stands tend to be all over the socioeconomic, drug-use, parental-readiness, abortion-rights, and cultural map (just like people who believe sex is for married people only).

.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?
I think on women's part it's loneliness--it's embarrassing to say, but in my 20's I used to go to bars and pick up men, and sometimes it would turn into a relationship. I think for men it's that they enjoy the pleasure of a woman's body instead of their own hand. Just so you don't get too excited, I've never brought an unwanted child into the world, or any child, for that matter.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?You are making SO many generalizations, it's impossible to address.



Simply, people are different and have different needs. And they have the right to behave as they see fit.



Most people are not poor, ignorant drug addicts. Those are your assumptions and they are incorrect
ods cool. well, i agree with the person who asked the question,participating in one night stands or premarital sex is wrong.. a person can always masturbate and keep his.her virginity for marriage.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?Different strokes for different folks I guess!!



Erm, babies don't generally happen from one night stands. Otherwise people would not have them just like that.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?
Because mating with the opposite sex is the real deal...provided you are careful enough as not to get an STD or worse from them.
You are obviously a woman.



For a man, the feel of a warm, wet vagina is WAY better than his own hand.Why don't people masturbate instead of engaging in disgusting one night stands?
did you knew you cannot tickle yourself ?
I know it is not right but it is exciting and feels good. That would be my short explanation.
it's reality
Ewwww yuk--YOU TOUCH YOURSELF?!
Cuz I can't buy myself drinks. And it's hard to masterbate when drunk
Had a bad day, hun?

How did you bounce back from your one night stand with Some Smart Sexy Temp?

true love lies one inch to the leftHow did you bounce back from your one night stand with Some Smart Sexy Temp?i licked myself offHow did you bounce back from your one night stand with Some Smart Sexy Temp?I went bowling.

Why do women who accuse men of liking one night stands, forget to mention other women are involved?

I mean one girl said to me men love one night stands pigs! Then i thought about and said hello! It takes 2 to tango, who the the hell do you think these guys are having one night stands with there shadows lol. And im not having it that in one evening he could convince all women the world and they would buy it and sleep with him. lol



Its like saying 'dam guns they fire bullets' well it takes a bloody person to pull the trigger can not happen on its own. So if hes a pig surly his company is to, what do you people think? im not attacking anyone just seeing gray as it is!Why do women who accuse men of liking one night stands, forget to mention other women are involved?Well, you're right. Women shouldn't be so sexist like that, but I think she is referring to that most women are DRUNK, (thanks to her wonderful date haha) Or they are forced. But I do agree with you, women do take part in this as well. : ]Why do women who accuse men of liking one night stands, forget to mention other women are involved?
True. Back in the day, apparently society had very clear rules about females who did this and they were not socially accepted. I hear things were different then and that people were happier generally.



But nowadays, nobody's supposed to feel shame, so the most immoral of acts is normalized. Makes a mom shudder to think of it.Why do women who accuse men of liking one night stands, forget to mention other women are involved?"If I date someone 20 yaers younger than me, I'm a cougar. Hey! he's 40 and she's 22. SICK PERVERT PEDOPHILE!!"-women







never try to understand women. They think with their emotions not with their brains. Why do women who accuse men of liking one night stands, forget to mention other women are involved?
good point,i think one night stands are less to do do with gender and more about how the individual regards sex.recreational or emotional. Why do women who accuse men of liking one night stands, forget to mention other women are involved?I agree with you. But some women cant see their double-standards

How many One Night Stands have you had?

How many One Night Stands have you had, and how old are you?



I'm writing a book, and need to know this for one of my characters, who is a fun-loving party guy and very liberal. And I really have no idea how much is normal!



Thanks. :)How many One Night Stands have you had?None...How many One Night Stands have you had?
I've had three or four, maybe five (some weren't intended to be one-night stands, they just turned out that way)



I'm 49. On the other hand though, I've been intimate with 83 women, with some kind of "relationship" lasting for awhile in each case - but only ever married one of them.How many One Night Stands have you had?none, and i'm 40





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girls say 3-and it's really 10

guys say 10-and it's really 3How many One Night Stands have you had?I don't roll that way.How many One Night Stands have you had?
Hmm.. about 0?
500,000,000,000,000,000.How many One Night Stands have you had?
seven
I've had 2 or 3 ~ I'm 41 years old.
0 I'm 55.
I had zero my friend.
none.

How many One Night Stands have you had?

How many One Night Stands have you had, and how old are you?



I'm writing a book, and need to know this for one of my characters, who is a fun-loving party guy and very liberal. And I really have no idea how much is normal!



Thanks. :)How many One Night Stands have you had?None. I have more respect for my body then to rent it out for a night to a total stranger. Also, you take your life in your hands each time as you don't know what diseases the other person has.How many One Night Stands have you had?
I'm 32. I'm a singer who tours several months each year. The tour is quite lonely and opportunities abound.



I'm sorry to say that twice on tour I've given in to the loneliness and had one-night stands. I will admit that I did enjoy them, but I'm not proud of having done it.



I didn't even get the guys' names.How many One Night Stands have you had?A **** TON!!!!!!! like every weekend dude! i got to soooooo many parties, ok so one time i got this chick soooooo drunk and she wanted to suck it but i knew she'd throw up so i didn't let her, but anyways yea usually a different girl every weekend!
None thank you very much.

Still a virgin, last one in my class.

Do you believe guys offer to take it away? Ugh mongrels.How many One Night Stands have you had?2 personally, I don't think there is any standard rate, there is no "normal" number.



Forgot to say, I'm 26.How many One Night Stands have you had?
4 and the problem is all 4 were good enuff to go back for seconds but it never happened !
More than I have years (62). Hardly one of those I regret. They are part of my life: I did it my way!How many One Night Stands have you had?
none.

I can't even get a chick to make eye contact with me, let alone genital contact :(

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